Tattoo Placement meaning

OK. so im getting matching tattoos on the balls of my shoulders. they will be about 5-7 inches in diameter. someone told me that the placement of symetrical tattoos on the balls of your shoulders is like a "spot to grab onto" during sex (best way i could put it). being im a guy, that would be kinda gay, so im wondering if this is fact or fiction. lil help peeps. thanks

Know whats gay? Worrying that people might think your gay if you have tattoos on your shoulders. But thats ok, gay isnt good or bad, it just is. Tough people get the tattoos they want, gay or not.

I have symetrical tattoos on my forearms , I think it gives me a sense of balance , listen to your instinct , unless its gay j/k ,haha

I'm a gal and I grab onto my guy's shoulders sometimes during sex.